A message says we need to talk. Within ninety seconds you have arrived at being dismissed, unable to find work, and explaining it to your family. None of this has happened, and the sequence felt entirely reasonable while it was assembling itself.
Catastrophising is moving to the worst possible outcome and treating it as the likely one. It is one of the most common patterns in anxiety and is well described in cognitive therapy.
Why it feels like realism
Because each individual step is possible. Nothing in the chain is absurd — the conclusion is reached through a series of plausible moves, which is why it does not feel like distortion from the inside.
It is also protective in intent. Anticipating disaster feels like preparation, and there is a quiet belief that expecting the worst will make it hurt less if it arrives. It generally does not.
What it does
- Produces a physical stress response to an event that has not occurred
- Drives avoidance of ordinary situations because of imagined outcomes
- Consumes hours in rehearsal for scenarios that never arrive
- Prompts pre-emptive decisions — leaving before being left, quitting before being asked
- Exhausts people who have effectively lived through the disaster already
What interrupts it
Not positive thinking, which most people correctly find unconvincing. What works is checking the reasoning rather than replacing it with optimism.
- Naming the chain explicitly — writing the steps out makes the leaps visible
- Asking what has actually happened before in this situation
- Asking what the most likely outcome is, not the best or worst
- If the worst did happen, what would you actually do — this is usually more reassuring than probability
- Noticing the physical state, since catastrophising accelerates when the body is already activated
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When it is worth treating
If it is frequent enough to affect decisions, sleep or work. Catastrophising responds well to CBT, and often faster than people expect, because it is a pattern rather than a fixed trait.