Getting as far as looking this up often takes more effort than people realise — depression works against the very energy needed to seek help. So the aim here is to make the next step small and clear rather than another decision to carry.
If this is urgent, start here
If you are thinking about ending your life, or feel you cannot keep yourself safe, please do not wait for an appointment.
A helpline is for the immediate moment. It is not treatment, and it does not replace ongoing care — but it is the right first call when things are acute.
The short answer
Mild to moderate depression → psychologist, for therapy
Severe depression — barely functioning, not eating or sleeping, thoughts of not wanting to be here → psychiatrist first, usually with therapy alongside
Depression that has run for years → psychologist, with attention to what has been maintaining it
Unsure how serious it is → either is a reasonable start; both will tell you honestly if the other fits better
What a psychiatrist offers
A psychiatrist is a medical doctor who can prescribe and monitor antidepressants, and rule out physical causes that mimic depression — thyroid problems, anaemia, vitamin B12 or vitamin D deficiency, sleep apnoea. Those are worth excluding, and are often never checked.
For severe depression, medication can lift the floor enough that therapy becomes possible at all. That sequencing matters: it is difficult to engage in therapy when you cannot get out of bed.
What a psychologist offers
A psychologist does not prescribe. Therapy addresses what maintains depression — the withdrawal loop where doing less lowers mood and lower mood makes doing anything harder, the thinking patterns, and often the life situation underneath.
That last point is the one medication cannot reach. If the depression is anchored to a marriage that has been unhappy for a decade, or work that has become meaningless, medication may make it bearable without changing why you were on the floor.
For moderate to severe depression the evidence broadly favours medication and therapy together over either alone. They do different jobs — one reduces the intensity of symptoms, the other addresses what keeps the problem in place.
Counsellor and coach are unregulated titles in Nepal, so training varies widely. Support from someone kind is worth something, but depression that has lasted weeks and is affecting sleep, appetite, and functioning needs qualified assessment rather than encouragement alone.
Be wary of anyone framing depression as a lack of willpower, gratitude, or faith. That framing is common and it delays people for years.
In the Nepali context
Two things specifically get in the way here. Depression frequently presents physically first — fatigue, headaches, gastric trouble, sleeplessness — so people spend months in medical investigation, get normal reports, and are told nothing is wrong.
And there is a widespread belief that low mood is weakness or ingratitude, something to be handled quietly within the family. Both delay care. A normal medical report does not mean the problem is imaginary, and needing help is not a character failing.
If you are outside Kathmandu or abroad
Therapy works well over secure video, and many people do it entirely that way. Medication needs a prescriber where you live — that part cannot be handled across borders. A common arrangement is therapy with a clinician who shares your context and medication managed locally.
Making the first appointment easier
You do not need to explain everything, or explain it well
You do not need a diagnosis, or the right words, before booking
Writing down three things that are hardest right now is enough to start
If phoning is too much, a message or an online form is a legitimate way in
If the first person is not the right fit, that is information, not failure
Where we fit
Bhatta Psychotherapy is one of the practices in Kathmandu working with depression. We are psychologists — CBT, ACT, and compassion-focused work — so we do not prescribe, and refer to a psychiatrist where medication may help. English, Nepali, or Hindi; in person or by secure video.
We are not the only option, and we are not an emergency service. If this sounds like the kind of help you want, a short clarity call is a low-pressure way to find out whether we are a match — and if something else fits you better, we will say so.
For mild to moderate depression, a psychologist for therapy. For severe depression — barely functioning, not eating or sleeping, thoughts of not wanting to be here — a psychiatrist first, usually with therapy alongside, since medication can lift the floor enough that therapy becomes possible. For moderate to severe depression the evidence broadly favours both together.
Do I need medication for depression?
Not always. Mild to moderate depression often responds to therapy alone. For moderate to severe depression, the evidence broadly favours medication and therapy together. Only a psychiatrist or medical doctor can prescribe, and it is worth having physical causes ruled out — thyroid problems, anaemia, B12 or vitamin D deficiency, sleep apnoea.
Is a helpline enough for depression?
A helpline is the right call in an acute moment — in Nepal, TUTH 1166, available 24/7. It is not treatment and does not replace ongoing care. For depression lasting weeks and affecting sleep, appetite, or functioning, you need assessment and ongoing support as well.
My tests came back normal but I still feel exhausted — what does that mean?
It does not mean the problem is imaginary. In Nepal depression often presents physically first — fatigue, headaches, gastric trouble, sleeplessness — so people cycle through medical investigation before anyone considers depression. Keep the medical review going and add psychological support alongside it.
Can I get help for depression from outside Nepal?
Yes — therapy works well over secure video and many people do it entirely that way. Medication needs a prescriber where you live, since that cannot be managed across borders. A common arrangement is therapy with a clinician who shares your context and medication handled locally.
Questions before booking? WhatsApp or call — we typically reply within one business day.