Grief after death, miscarriage, migration separation, or the end of a relationship is not a problem to fix quickly. In Nepal, mourning has cultural rituals — shraddha, mourning clothes, community gatherings — that help many people. Therapy supports when grief gets stuck, hidden, or overwhelming.
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Normal grief vs when to seek help
Normal — waves of sadness, tears, fatigue, longing that soften over time
Seek help — cannot work or care for children for extended periods
Seek help — guilt or anger that dominates every day
Seek help — numbness lasting months with no relief
Seek help — thoughts of not wanting to live — urgent care needed
Grief in Nepali families
“Be strong for the family” can silence younger members or daughters-in-law. Diaspora grief adds guilt — unable to attend last rites abroad. Therapy offers private space to cry, rage, and remember without performing strength.